Playful Humiliation Is the Sexiest Kind of Teasing

It’s the kink I could never name

I’ve always been adamant that I’m not into sexual humiliation. But it turns out I just didn’t understand myself enough.

I was turned off by the idea of it because I get embarrassed very easily. The last thing I wanted to do was seek out more of that discomfort.

That made me feel a bit out of step with the kink world.

I’m into sexual submission. I get turned on by people who can pull off a dominant attitude. Bondage puts me in a good place and I’d love to try being someone’s rope bunny.

But I could never get off to anything that was labeled sexual humiliation. I was completely put off by the idea of being called a whore or a bitch during sex. And spitting on me with disdain or mocking my body in any way are completely off limits.

Seeing that kind of thing in porn made me uncomfortable, too.

I’m into dominance and submission. I love bondage and I find rope play completely fascinating. But whenever I came across videos that showed a performer being mocked, degraded, or insulted, I had to find something else to watch.

Instead of getting horny, I felt bad for the people on screen.

I knew that I shouldn’t. This was their kink and they had found a way to share it with the world. I was also aware that there are a fair amount of women who get aroused or find some other kind of satisfaction from being degraded in a safe context.

But I also knew that I would feel horrible if I was in their place. Being on the receiving end of that kind of treatment would be distressing for me.

I could ignore a bit of light degradation in my porn,. I could click ahead to skip it like I do whenever a blowjob scene gets too gaggy for my tastes. But I knew it would be different in real life. If I ever heard that kind of language while having sex, I would probably have to use my safeword and call a timeout.

There are a few things I personally need to get in the mood. I need to feel like I’m the submissive one (though I might be able to domme a cute girl if I was given the opportunity). There also needs to be a playful tone — too much…

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